I would love to do something great for God. I would love to be a Billy Graham or Beth Moore, and have the Lord use me in big ways for His purposes. Right now, however, that is not the way my life is working out. The Lord is not using me on the national or world scene. He is not even using me on the local scene. Or is He? Sometimes from where I sit I wonder if I am useful to the Lord at all, and that is just where the enemy of God and our souls wants us. Our enemy (who, by the way, is God’s enemy first, and because we are God’s prized creation, we become Satan’s enemy also, or at least a way that he can get back at God and hurt Him) wants us defeated, discouraged and in despair over our lives and our relationship with our Creator. He wants us thinking we should do more, have more, be “used” by God more, and have a greater place in God’s kingdom. Satan wants us discontent. Our Heavenly Father, however, wants us to be still and know that He is God (not we) and be so close and comfortable in relationship with Him, that we are satisfied in His presence, simply loving and being loved by Him. No worries about if we are “doing” enough. He’ll tell us if there is anything to be done moment-by-moment Just focus on that relationship.
Our enemy wants us nervous about the Lord using us in big ways, but God says to us- be faithful in the little things I send you each day. (Matthew 25:21,23) God gifts our lives with other people each day. They are members of our family, our friends, members of the household of faith, acquaintances, co-workers, etc. We live in relationship with many people, and the Lord has a plan for each relationship, casual or intimate, that He blesses our lives with.
I love the relationship of David and Jonathan shown in the Scriptures. Hidden in the description of their activities together is the reason God gives us humans each other. Recall that Jonathan is King Saul’s son. He is technically next in line for the throne of Israel. But Saul rejects the Lord’s leadership in his life and kingship, refusing to lead in God’s way. He looses favor with the Lord because of his sin and unrepentant attitude, and God seeks for a King after His own heart. He has the prophet Samuel anoint David the next king.
Jealous Saul goes on a rampage, determined to get rid of David. In the midst of all this drama, which can be found in 1st Samuel, David and Jonathan become buddies. We don’t know all the details of their relationship, but the Bible says Jonathan and David became one in spirit, and he loved him as himself. (1 Samuel 18:1, 3-4) They were tight. Jonathan even acknowledges later that David is the true and God-anointed next King of Israel, before him. No doubt they were very close friends “in the Lord” as we might say today.
Hidden in this story of great friendship is a statement of what friends do, or at least what they are supposed to do. If we look closely at chapter 23 of 1st Samuel, something important pops out of the text. As mentioned above, Saul is in hot pursuit of David, with the intent of “besieging” David and his men and killing David. (1Samuel 23:8) David flees the area, and keeps moving from place to place (v.13) to elude Saul and his jealous wrath. Then we notice verse 14-16:
David stayed in the desert strongholds and in the hills of the Desert of Ziph. Day after day Saul searched for him, but God did not give David into his hands.
While David was at Horesh in the Desert of Ziph, he learned that Saul had come out to take his life. And Saul’s son Jonathan went to David at Horesh and helped him find strength in God. (1 Sam. 23:14-16, NIV, emphasis mine)
Saul’s son Jonathan went to David in his desert hiding place, and “helped him find strength in God.” That is what friends do. That is what our God-given friendships are all about. We are to “help each other find strength in God.” When we think of the friends God has put in our lives, we need to remember that we are friends so that we can help our friend find strength in God. Is that cool, or what?
Many times we get off the track a little. We think that our friends are in our life for us to help them find strength in us, or help us find strength in them. Sometimes we think our friendships are all about having a good time or entertainment or comfort or challenge, but we leave God totally out of the picture. After all, what do our earthly friendships have to do with God? Well, short of the fact that He places friends in our lives, He also puts them there for a purpose. He puts us in someone else’s life for a purpose, too. While the purpose may be for comfort or fun or encouragement, the underlying current in all friendships is ultimately to help our friend find strength in the Lord. If it is a night out with the girls, a fun shopping trip, the comfort of a hand, shoulder or hug, it is all under girded by the goal of helping friends find strength in the Lord.
So when we think that the Lord is not using us in huge ways, let’s think again. We may not be on the national or international scene. We may not be on the local scene. We may not be leaders in our church, but if we have a friend, the Lord is using us in huge ways. He is using us to help our friends find strength in the God of the universe. As long as we are doing that with each friend the Lord brings onto our path, the Lord is using us mightily, and we are being faithful to Him in whatever perceived “little things” He brings our way.
Never underestimate the power of God to use your smile, your touch, your wise and kind words and deeds in great and mighty ways to help someone else on the track, keep them from falling off, and help others find strength in God. No thought, word or deed is too trivial or small. Who knows what will grow out of it? Remember the mustard seed?
And Saul’s son Jonathan went to David at Horesh and helped him find strength in God.
“Don’t be afraid,” he said. “My father Saul will not lay a hand on you. You will be king over Israel, and I will be second to you. Even my father Saul knows this.”
The two of them made a covenant before the Lord. Then Jonathan went home, but David remained at Horesh. (1 Samuel 23:16-18, NIV)